5 Tips on How to Grow as a Person

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Good Morning! I hope you guys all had a great weekend! Here in Houston the weather was beautiful and I could accomplish many things.  Today’s post is all about how to grow as a person and some tips to make it easier.  I’m not an expert at this AT ALL but I do have some tips on how I make it easier in my life.  Growing up is never really easy or fun but it’s a necessary part of life.

This topic is so different to my blog and I’m hoping it will be something I can continue talking about.  I’m not going to lie I’m quite nervous posting this because it’s very personal to my life and me.  So please just take some of these things with a grain of salt because I know everyone is different.  Let’s jump right into how to grow as a person.

#1 Question everything.

I know most people just like to accept whatever is thrown at them but I say don’t just accept it, think about it.  Trust me I’m not an overthinker by any means but sometimes it doesn’t hurt to sit back and reflect on what’s happening.  If you do that and trust whatever decisions you are currently in then great! If not it might be time to start making some changes.white denim, light blue button up, henri bendel, denim heels spring outfit, spring inspiration, spring colors, what to wear during the spring season, outfit inspo, blue top, white jeans,

#2 Don’t get too comfortable.

Guys we live in a day in era where everything is constantly changing and more means of life are available than before! Don’t sit back and waste your time doing something you don’t love.  Yes I’m totally referring to jobs here! I recently quit a steady job not because I’m crazy, but because I was getting comfortable and could see myself never leaving.  I love finding places that I love to work at but the work itself wasn’t what I wanted in my life.  I’m sure many of you could relate to this since most of you are full time bloggers.  For those that aren’t make moves and find what you love.  You won’t regret it.white jeans, blue shoes, pink purse, kendra scott earrings, blue top, pink purse

#3 Explore the world.

This one is probably my favorite one because who doesn’t want to travel!? But I don’t just mean I travel I mean with every accept of life, explore it! Never tried that Japanese dish? Give it a try! Want to try that new makeup look everyone is obsessed with? Slap that new obsession on your face.  Remember it’s all about exploring and finding what you love in the is world and how you can make it your top, blue shoes, white jeans, spring outfit white jeans, blue pajama top, pink purse

#4 Don’t be afraid to fall in love.

Not going to really get to sappy about this here but just want to say do it.  Go out and find that special someone and don’t be scared.  I know meeting new people is SO scary but I’ve met so many people and trust me many of them don’t bite.  (I was a bitter as a child but I SWEAR I’ve grown out of this phase 🙂 ).  Love is one of the greatest things that this world can offer.  It is also one of the hardest things.  Just trust your heart and go with your head.  That’s all you can pajama top, white jeans, blue shoes, pink purse, henri bendel, target, steve madden blue pajama top, pink purse, spring 2017 trends

#5 Make memories and plan less.

Okay this one is SO weird for me to type about because I’m a planner.  Trust me every day I try to take my life minute by minute, hour by hour, and if it doesn’t go as planned well… AHH!  I want to be a TOTAL control freak of my life sometimes but learning you can’t has been quite hard for me.  I mean we grew up with our parents waking us up at a certain time every morning.  Leaving the house at a certain time every morning to go to school.  Had a school schedule and got off at the same time every day.  Why can’t life continue to have this?

Well I don’t know why it can’t but I’ve learned to look past it (sometimes) and make the most of my situation.  Okay so my phone might die in the middle of the day.   Well that could be a good thing (Trust me) because now I’m able to breath the air and look at the world face on.  So I’m not glued to this phone of mine. Well now I can drink some coffee and read.  So many things can happen that we aren’t planning but making the memories and cherishing them is the best part.

I hope you guys could relate to some of these tips! Growing pains are seriously the worse but are totally normal.  Don’t worry if you aren’t where you want to be right now.  You will find a way to get there on your own time and pace.

I would love hear any tips you have on growing up!



Silvia M.



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  • Reply Adriana Renee

    I had to snap out of being too comfortable because I saw that is wasn’t benefiting me at all! I ended up pushing myself to try new things and even though I was nervous, it’s been great and has taught me new things!

    April 24, 2017 at 9:18 am
    • Reply Silvia

      Omg that’s great to hear! I’m so nervous about my career change and am hoping for the best. I’m glad everything worked out for you!

      April 24, 2017 at 9:24 am
  • Reply Summer Telban (@SummerTelban)

    Love, love your point of not being too comfortable. Stepping out of your comfort zone, trying new things, and pushing yourself are KEY to growth!

    April 24, 2017 at 11:23 am
    • Reply Silvia

      I agree! Thanks Summer!

      May 1, 2017 at 11:39 pm
  • Reply Virjinia

    I absolutely love this. I’m all about planning but sometimes I just let plans take a back seat and create awesome memories. And I agree on finding what makes you happy! I see people who hate their job but don’t do anything to make a change. What a shame!

    April 24, 2017 at 12:21 pm
    • Reply Silvia

      Trust me it is hard to not plan but I’ve been trying to just relax haha!

      May 1, 2017 at 11:41 pm
  • Reply Annette Dattilo

    Amazing post! Love that you shared from your heart. Very valid points. Thank you for sharing this.

    April 24, 2017 at 3:30 pm
  • Reply Daily Delivered

    I can totally relate to a lot of this!

    April 24, 2017 at 3:38 pm
  • Reply Elizabeth Johnson

    One tip I have for growing up is embrace change. Change is inevitable so the less we fight it the better things will be. It’s just learning to navigate them is the hard part. Great article! Really enjoyed it!

    April 24, 2017 at 5:57 pm
    • Reply Silvia

      Thank you! You are so right! I’m always so nervous for change but it’s one of the best things for us to do.

      May 1, 2017 at 11:45 pm
  • Reply jennyblaisdell

    Yes to not getting too comfortable and traveling the world. I strive to do these things daily.

    April 24, 2017 at 6:05 pm
  • Reply Alexis Reliford

    Amazing post! I definitely agree with #2. Life is too short to settle for careers and experiences that aren’t a challenge or what you really want to do. That’s a lesson I’ve recently learned as well.

    April 24, 2017 at 8:33 pm
    • Reply Silvia

      Yeah it’s a hard lesson but I’m hoping it was for the best.

      May 1, 2017 at 11:45 pm
  • Reply April

    Great tips…i love thenot getting too comfortable. It’s always a good idea to try different things, to grow and evolve. I love your sandals btw.

    April 24, 2017 at 8:37 pm
    • Reply Silvia

      Thanks April! Yes I’m hoping all these changes will help me evolve.

      May 1, 2017 at 11:46 pm
  • Reply Kristin

    These are all great tips! Also I’m obsessed with the shoes you’re wearing!

    The Blush Blonde

    April 24, 2017 at 8:52 pm
  • Reply Maegan Clark

    I am LOVING those shoes! Your tips are fab but you should add one more: “ALways wear great shoes!” 😉

    April 24, 2017 at 10:52 pm
    • Reply Silvia

      Haha thanks girl!

      May 1, 2017 at 11:49 pm
  • Reply Anna

    These are great tips!! I especially love #3, travel is so important!

    April 25, 2017 at 12:17 am
  • Reply Rachel R Ritlop

    Legit one of my favorite posts of yours Silvia! these are all on point and couldn’t agree more <3

    April 25, 2017 at 6:39 am
  • Reply the sofieyah diaries

    I agree with them all! But I don’t think I could ever plan less xD Planning actually makes me grow as a person so I plan on keeping that part of myself 😉

    April 25, 2017 at 7:56 am
    • Reply Silvia

      That’s great girl!

      May 1, 2017 at 11:55 pm
  • Reply Amy

    These are such great tips! I’m a total planner and am trying to get better at being a little more spontaneous.
    Amy | Pastel N Pink

    April 25, 2017 at 10:33 am
    • Reply Silvia

      I know it has to be the hardest thing!

      May 1, 2017 at 11:55 pm
  • Reply val

    this is a great list – I especially love experimenting and stepping outside our comfort zones 🙂

    April 25, 2017 at 10:39 am
  • Reply Claudia

    I love this!! And love that you are doing something different

    April 25, 2017 at 11:40 am
    • Reply Silvia

      Thanks Claudia! I’m hoping for the best!

      May 1, 2017 at 11:57 pm
  • Reply Alex

    Exploring the world is a definite key for my happiness and growing in myself and my marriage!

    April 25, 2017 at 4:33 pm
    • Reply Silvia

      I’m happy to hear that Alex!

      May 1, 2017 at 11:58 pm
  • Reply Angela Amores

    These are all such great tips!! I especially loved number 3. It’s so true that exploring means more than just travel. It means exploring the little things, and trying things that might not be comfortable all the time.

    April 25, 2017 at 7:58 pm
  • Reply Sydney Power

    The planning less is what gets me, I love to plan everything, my boyfriend is like whatever just go with the flow. So I am trying to live life a bit more like him, sometimes!

    April 26, 2017 at 11:08 am
    • Reply Silvia

      Literally sounds just like me and my boyfriend haha!

      May 2, 2017 at 12:00 am
  • Reply Teresa

    What great advice! I definitely tend to get too comfortable, and it’s something I’m working on.

    April 26, 2017 at 3:05 pm
    • Reply Silvia

      Don’t worry girl we all fall into it. As long as you are able to recognize when it’s time to change then everything will work out!

      May 2, 2017 at 12:58 am

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